Archive for June, 2012

MATCHES, CANDLES, AND WONDERING, II

I normally don’t do this, but many of you have asked about sources I can refer them to that were useful in my latest response to Barbara.  Instead of rattling off a series of repetitive answers that would ultimately numb my fingertips and wear out the keys, I thought I’d beg your indulgence and send [...]

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MATCHES, CANDLES, AND WONDERING

I went out for a swim on the streets this morning about 4:30 into the inky, humid darkness.  It wasn’t but a couple of blocks that I was wondering about Barbara.  A few days ago, Barbara had called–again.  This is just about how part of our conversation went.  Just don’t hold me to word for [...]

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CARING AND THREE STORIES

So, on this Father’s Day afternoon, as I was laying in some Chocolate Chip Ajuga in the backyard rose bed both for beautification and to combat the weeds, my cell phone rings.  I thought it was one of my sons finally wishing me a happy Father’s Day.  It wasn’t.  It was a weedy call from [...]

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CARING: TO WALK OR TO TALK

Went out for a walk this morning.  When I go out on the streets, I go out into my quiet “zone.”   My walks are my form of silent mobile meditation, a rendezvous with my inner self, a stillness that is vital for reflection and appreciation, that quickly becomes a surreal and inspiring state of being. [...]

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EVERY CLASS IS

Barbara just won’t leave me alone–thank goodness.  So, I was in my garden talking with the flowers when my cell rang.  It was Barbara asking, “You busy?”  I said goodbye to the flowers, sat down by the koi pond, and start chatting with her. We weren’t far into our conversation when she asked me,  ”Dr. [...]

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COGITO ERGO SEMPER GRATIAM HABEBE

I am still feeling my mortality.  Actually, I always feel it, deeply feel it, consciously feel it, want to feel it, each day, since that fateful September 14, 2007 day when for no apparent reason I got hit with a massive cerebral hemorrhage that for unknown reasons didn’t take me out of life’s game and [...]

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STILL MORE ON THE ROAD TO SUCCESSFUL TEACHING

I know, I shared a Random Thought only a few days ago.  In my defense, I’ve got a lot on my heart and mind.  I’m still feeling my mortality because of my colleagues sudden death, and I still have a lot to say to Barbara, the student who wanted to know about the “road to [...]

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